Women often change their husbands, but they are rarely convict in this. Today regarding all turned on its head, and women change their husbands as often as the opposite sex, experts say.
Family psychologist, consultant on interpersonal relations, director of dating agency "Me and You" Elena Kuznetsova said that, according to the latest sociological research, monogamous now mostly are men, whereas in women can be at the same time two or three partners. And female infidelity today, alas, not uncommon.
"Scientists say that modern women simply refer to sex as men. They do not see the connection on the side of a betrayal to your partner because they are looking for a more successful miner, hunter, and so on. Since men are shallow, a woman in bed, in particular, is looking for a better game. About feelings we are not talking. Here only a business relationship, says the psychologist.
In pursuit of the Prince
If you do not take into account the nymphomaniacs, in most cases, a woman, as a man, goes to the side that if it is not satisfied in the family: the partner is bad in bed, not only give money, not paying any attention to his lady etc.
Modern woman is easy dare to commit adultery in the case if the new chosen one, as it seems, the stronger and more successful than the lawful husband. Or it can be exactly the same status as a spouse, but more romantic and more gentle towards women. If a potential lover will offer the young lady what she does not have, or what she wants at the moment, she goes after him. Even despite the fact that the new man might actually be far worse than her husband, he will tell the lady a couple of compliments, which she had already a hundred years the house had not heard, and thereby bribe their counterparts.
"Very often, a woman comes up problems for yourself. She does not want to fight for her husband to talk to him, because she does not believe any changes to his side. Wife easier to focus on the new man, especially when he told her honey in the ears filled. We hear what we want to hear. And we see what we want to see. And husbands are often a hundred times better than a lover, a wife but they are not looking for real, says Elena Kuznetsova.
Sex yes
Women dare to commit adultery, and when it starts to miss sex. This often happens when the wife of the same age, but her husband, for example, less temperamental, and with age it begins with potency problems, but the woman is still in the juice.
To leave, to go back
Women change completely different men, it all depends on the ambitions of the ladies. Some of the fairer sex can endure a lifetime and the most worthless of social standards, a man just because he did. And some it seems that her man is rich enough and they are more wealthy gentleman.
Daring to commit adultery, the woman admits the thought that this could ever leave her husband for another man. And this is the main difference between women's infidelities by men. Representatives of the stronger sex, leaving the town red, often do not want to ruin a family.
"Women are going through their own betrayal easier, faster, moving away from her husband. We'll give a more flexible mentality, they are corrupt, says Elena Kuznetsova.
Thus the psychologist notes that the woman is always called for the stability of the relationship, and dare to leave the spouse only if the new chosen one calls her behind him. She would follow him to build a new unit of society.
In terms of women it will change hiding a hundred points ahead of men. Dame is much more difficult to convict of treason, because they are more cunning. They carefully cover their tracks "crime", taking care of all the details.
However, to catch his wife to change is still possible. Usually it is changing the usual routine, it is often not at home, it becomes more well-groomed, even before also always careful to look after themselves. In addition, she often breaks the anger on his wife, because, as it seems, it interferes with her happiness. The husband becomes active external stimuli for the ladies. Plus it does not want to have sex with him.
No retreat, no surrender
You should never admit to treason. Unlocks to the last, even if you are pushed to the wall. In general, any woman, even if she is walking on the faithful the right and left, talking about his wife, he was the only one for her and that she loves him alone. Oddly enough, but it is believed by almost all men.
Return of the Shrew
If the deceived husband, learned about betrayal of his wife, still decided to forgive her, family life begins a new period. Forget about infidelity husband, of course, never be able to, but a clever man enough brains not to reproach those who had returned to the family of a woman. After the reunification of the two need to talk frankly and find out exactly what did not suit his wife in a relationship. A woman should be borne in mind that, in speaking of the reasons which have pushed her to commit adultery, she gives her husband some instructions on how he should act in the future. Man apprehend these instructions exactly. That is, if a woman says that her partner paid little attention or give a little money, he will be in the future with accuracy all perform. And if you are under the "care" meant flowers and trips to the theater, and the husband just got to spend more time with you at home, then do not blame me.
